So, you have just met this guy at the bar, he is cute, he is courteous, and he is everything you want and you have fallen for him almost instantly. You have gone on a date or two but how do you attract and hold his attention, how do you make him fall for you as well? Though all this may seem difficult, if you follow some simple tips, you can indeed win his attention and love. So, without wasting time let us get to learn about 10 such ways, that if you follow, you certainly can win him over.
Presenting the 10 Ways to Make a Man Fall in Love with You Instantly:
- 10. Dress to kill
- 9. Smile often and display a pleasant disposition
- 8. Avoid being rude
- 7. Display your intellectual side
- 6. Eye contacts are important
- 5. Those soft touches
- 4. Do not be easily accessible
- 3. Let him be aware of your talents
- 2. Do not agree with him all the time
- 1. Do not let him figure out you have already fallen for him
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10. Dress to kill
Men do get attracted by what they see and this is something every girl knows. So, the first thing you need to remember is to dress your best whenever you get the chance to go out with him. If you see him noticing your dress, taking discreet glances, or grinning widely, you can be sure your efforts are paying off well. If other men notice you because of your good dressing, this will attract him towards you all the more as men are very competitive, particularly when it is about wooing a woman. Here are some first date Outfit Ideas, you might like.
9. Smile often and display a pleasant disposition
A cute smile is something men find very attractive and if you manage to be warm and pleasant when conversing with him, he will surely love this. A great way to attract a man will be to tuck your hair behind your ear while answering an awkward question. Also, when he compliments you, blush a bit, and laugh at most of his jokes, even if you do not find them much amusing.
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8. Avoid being rude
No man likes an arrogant or rude woman and so this is something you just need to avoid. If you are rude to him or even to a waiter this will surely prove to be a big turn off. Men certainly do like women who know how to take a stand, but if you are arrogant and rude, he definitely would like to stay away from you. You must be aware of these things that men don’t like about women.
7. Display your intellectual side
Flirty conversations are all cute and sweet, and the man you are dating will like it when he is able to make you blush, but just flirting and no intelligent conversations can also get boring after some time. Though you need not be serious always, once in a while get involved in some serious and meaningful conversation. Speak to him about his ambitions, aspirations, and goals. This also shows you are interested in his life, and he definitely will appreciate this.
6. Eye contacts are important
Romantic eye contacts certainly can draw you closer to each other. The next time while talking with him stare into his eyes lovingly and maintain contact. You can smile flirtingly, but make sure whenever his eyes catch yours, you maintain eye contact at least for a while. If your eye shows your interest and warmth, a guy certainly will get attracted.
5. Those soft touches
Flirty yet not too obvious, this is the kind of touch that can make any many crazy. Be it hugging each other when meeting or bidding goodbye, or clasping palms, or just brushing your skin over his, making it look completely unintentional, can prove to be very exciting for him, and can spark a beautiful chemistry in just no time.
4. Do not be easily accessible
This certainly can attract a man towards you. When you have fallen for someone, you just want to spend more and more time with him, but when you cannot be with him you tend to miss him a lot. Once you feel the guy is interested in you try to cancel a date or two. Though it is necessary to spend as much time together as possible, to get closer and make him fall for you, it is also important to give him some space so that he misses you and understands how important you are to him.
3. Let him be aware of your talents
Letting the guy be aware of your talents is only going to attract him further. He may already like you for the kind of person you are, but to attract him further you need to make him know that you are so full of surprises, and he just needs to be ready to explore. Show off all the talents you have, be it singing, dancing, or playing a musical instrument. He definitely will admire this and get more attracted.
2. Do not agree with him all the time
Compatibility is important in every happy relationship, you, however, do not always have to agree with what he says. At times, a small argument can get him off guard but it will also make him respect you for speaking your mind. A man likes a fun girl but also wants her to be sensible, so display both these sides of yours and you will definitely prove to be irresistible.
1. Do not let him figure out you have already fallen for him
Men do take some time to fall for a woman, but once they are in love, they fall for it hard. But you also need to understand that men like the chase. You should let him know that you have developed a liking for him but do not let him know you have fallen crazily in love. Just let him keep guessing how serious you are, and it will be good if he takes the first move. Let the chase go on at least for some time and this only will make him want you more. Do be hard to get, but be warm and caring at the same time.
These tips certainly can make a man fall in love with you. But, apart from following these tips, you must be who you are and also be confident, as men love confident women. Things might take some time to work in your favor, so be patient, and your patience certainly will win things in your favor, and will win your man’s heart too.